BIOLOGICAL vs LOVING
PARENTS
I classify parents (mothers and fathers) as two main types: Biological
Parents and Loving Parents.
Definitions:
BIOLOGICAL MOTHER: The woman,
who in her womb, one of her fertilized eggs developed into a baby
that she gave birth to.
LOVING MOTHER: The woman who truly
loves the child, and accepts the responsibilities of motherhood (she
does not have to be the biological mother).
BIOLOGICAL FATHER: The man from whom,
the sperm that fertilized the egg, came from.
LOVING FATHER: The man who truly loves
the baby, and accepts the responsibilities of fatherhood.
For those who like modern logic or set theory, here
is a diagram of the sets I am about to discuss.

Let's define the acronyms first:
LM = Loving Mother
BM = Biological Mother
BLM = Biological and Loving Mother
LF = Loving Father
BF = Biological Father
BLF = Biological and Loving Father
Possible Logical Combinations:
Mother | Father
BLM | BLF
BLM | BF
BLM | LF
BM | BLF
BM | BF
BM | LF
LM | BLF
LM | BF
LM | LF
In the case of a single loving-parent: If it is a woman,
then she must accept some of the responsibilities of
fatherhood and all the responsibilities of motherhood. If it is a
man, he must accept some of the responsibilities of
motherhood and all the responsibilities of fatherhood.
It is easy to know who the biological mother is. She was the one who
gave birth to the baby. However, due to infidelities, the real
biological father is not always known, for sure, unless a complete
DNA comparison of mother, father, and baby are analyzed.
Biological motherhood can be difficult, the mother must eat the
proper diet, and take the necessary vitamins, and not consume any
narcotics (alcohol, nicotine, drugs, etc), during the nine months of
pregnancy. Culminating in the painful process of giving birth.
Biological fatherhood is easy. He just has to have coitus with the
mother to be. Any animal can be a biological father.
Ideally, the biological parents are also the loving-parents.
However, since there are so many different possibilities, that is
not always the case. In reality, the "loving-mother" can be a
stepmother, a grandmother, an aunt, a godmother, an adopting mother,
or a legal guardian. And the "loving-father" can be; a stepfather,
an uncle, a grandfather, an adopting father, a godfather, a legal
guardian, or a father who is married to the biological mother and believes
that he is the biological father, not knowing that his wife had
coitus with other men, while she was married to him.
To be a loving-parent is more difficult than just being a biological
parent. The loving-parent must love the child, care for him
or her, ensure that he/she gets a good education, eats a healthy
diet, stays in good health. Try (if economically possible) that
he/she has his/her own room, furnished with his/her bed, a small
desk, a comfortable chair, a small book shelf with some educational
books and some entertaining books (magazines, comics, etc), and some
toys.
In my opinion, a loving parent should be honest when
answering questions asked by his/her child. Smart children, who
catch their parents lying, might get the notion that everyone lies
most of the time.
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